Daniel replies:

I wish to point out that I feel pleased that I got to be married to Jill, and for such a long time, and I am more than pleased, I am tickled, that she went, (quickly), before me, and I don't need to ever worry again that I might die first and leave her alone and me unable to help and take care of her. It's a big deal to be loved as I was for so many years, and you can't be very sad if something like that happens to you